This morning, I saw a video link on CNN’s homepage that caught my attention – a report by Anderson Cooper about a school board meeting yesterday where a man named Clay Duke stood up near the end of the meeting, pulled out a gun, and after a conversation with the superintendent, started shooting.
Now, in regards to my Retweet Pledge, I would ask that if you retweet this post, please make sure you watch the video in its entirety before you do – maybe even twice. It is disturbing, so please be aware of this first. The meeting was being broadcast on the Internet live, so imagine what anyone watching it was thinking at the time:
Incredible Acts Of Bravery
During the event, in which the man asked all women to leave, one of the female board members, Ginger Littleton, came back and, amazingly, snuck up and tried to whack the man’s gun out of his hand with her purse. Almost just as amazingly, he didn’t shoot her when it didn’t work.
What was very impressive to me after that was how the superintendent, Bill Husfeld (sp?) engages the man in discussion and tried to get him to let everyone else go, so they can talk about the man’s grievance. Apparently, he was upset that his wife’s job had been cut at the district (not overly clear how or why) and that the superintendent had put in a tax that he didn’t like.
So, on all levels, this is a very scary situation. This is someone with a pistol, obviously upset, and trying to make a statement. Bad combination all around.
One of the things that stood out for me, though, is what seems to finally trigger (no pun intended) the actual firing of the gun. For me, this is where the space between the stimulus and response is THE biggest determiner in how our lives run…and, unfortunately, how sometimes our lives end.
The superintendent, after pleading for this man to let everyone else go and defending his policies to the gunman, eventually asks the gunman if he is looking for the police to come in to kill him.
Once the gunman hears that, he tells the group “I’m gonna die today” and seems to then make up his mind to start shooting. That turns out to be one of the last things he does.
Amazingly, even firing point blank at the superintendent and the others, he hit NO one. And then, the man himself was shot from someone behind him. The report says that while on the ground, he ends up taking his own life.
If you watch the video, you’re probably struck by a question: who shot him? Well, it turns out it was a contracted security guard (a retired detective) a that heard the first shots and came running and shot the gunman shortly afterwards. His aim was much better than the gunman’s.
An armed security guard at a school board office.
Wow.
Regardless, in the end, what this video showed (without knowing much back story) was an incredibly brave superintendent who tried his best to talk the gunman down, to save the people around him. He even offered to go with him if he’d let the others go.
I can’t imagine what I’d do in a similar situation. What would you do? How brave would you be? Even if you could be that brave, how would you celebrate THIS bravery? It’s clear to me that my definition of “Celebrate It” in my philosophy needs clarification on what celebrating bravery can mean.
My definition of “Be Brave” – to think AND act in a manner that reflects good values and character (I know, I need to work this a bit – “good” may not be the best word here)
My definition of ‘Celebrate It” – the ability to acknowledge bravery in ways that help us, and others, be brave again – to continue BEING brave.
How would YOU define “Be Brave And Celebrate It”?
BBACI,
James
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